A friend of mine sent this link to me yesterday and I felt I must share it further. A war has been going on in my mind for sometime now - The war between home and work. And I am at loss thinking how to prioritise. I feel guilty from both sides. So many times I feel such a loser for not being able to handle even one side well. But then all these are phases and the thought that most working moms go through this - adds to my comfort. So I am not the only one. I am not the only confused mom. I am not the only mom who is living with this ongoing struggle.
Well - the following article helped me. It gave me a feeling of comfort. It convinced me that I should choose what matters to me the most. I should be the one to decide not the surroundings. I should do as I wish to and not bother about the world. Decide on what matters to me the most. Life is not an Emergency Room. I should learn to differentiate between Urgent things, Important Things and Urgent-Important things.
It's a small article but left an impact in it's own way - atleast a lot on me.
Read on ...
Don't Sweat the Small Stuff!
Article courtesy - http://www.extensor.co.uk
I ahve a book by the same name [ "dont sweat the small stuff and it IS really small stuff" is the title of the book]
ReplyDeleteI read the article you linked.
Easy in theory hard to practice :)
Thanks for stopping by.
Cheers
preeti
Yeah, i realized it too quite often, the stuff we worries about the most is really small and it just makes you angry and defocus from the things you want to spend time to. As another saying goes
ReplyDelete"Anger shuts your mind and opens your mouth"
and this can only lead to regrets. I think practice calm may be the most difficult but the most useful things ever.
Regards
Saurabh Garg
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ReplyDeleteThanks Girl, for sharing this link. I soooo needed something like this badly. Not that it has tackled everything that is going on in my mind but it indeed was very encouraging read.
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