Self Pondering

Tuesday, August 30, 2016


People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person. When someone is in your life for a REASON . . . It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end .Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.

When people come into your life for a SEASON . . .Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

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Change for good

Life and its moments. They will change you. Change if you must but for good. Get stronger. Get wiser. Get smarter. Get kinder.

Monday, July 4, 2016

Pain pain go away

Pain pain go away
Whoever told you that you could stay
Ruining my life, creating my fears
Making me weak as I cry these tears
I never wanted you to live
In my body, I have so much to give
You lingering will make me lose
Life or relief, that's what I choose
You twist my vision, you make me cry
Wonder out of everyone, why
You settle in and make yourself at home
While I want to bolt out and roam
Pain pain go away
Don't come back and please don't stay
Cause ever since you've settled in my head
I have wished that I was dead.

Because some words sound too much like coming out of your own head.
Because some feelings you cannot put in words yourself.
Because some thoughts need someone else's way of letting them out.
Because not everyone is adequate and capable.
Poem by Emma Chatonoir. THANKS!

Saturday, July 2, 2016

Because life isn't fair

Because life isn't fair
You will fall
More than you can think. 
You will get up
More than you can believe. 
A smile sometimes
And some tears too. 
With a shoulder to lean on
And lonely too. 
Holding some hands
Letting go off some. 

Because life isn't fair. 


Source : Rupi Kaur
If you don't know her, you need to go NOW and read her poetry. Soul stirring!! 

Monday, June 27, 2016

Where have you gone?

Oh my dearest....
Where have you gone!
The best one. 
I could confide in. 
Talk to. 
Laugh with. 
Or be silent. 
Believing in each other...
And being close
The emotions!
The feelings! 
The times...
Good and bad! 
Oh my dearest 
Where have you gone!
Not friend. 
Not enemy. 
Just countless memories. 

Friday, June 24, 2016


came across this post on instagram by Anchal. I read it over and over... Many times over. It made me cry. And it made me smile. I felt a hurricane of emotions in this much piece. 
With her permission, i took screenshot of her post to save if here. 

Here is her instagram page: